-- The beauty in the calm --

Tuesday, October 05, 2004

Think I am going to use a See nothing Hear nothing way on my 2 cousins... hmmm wonder is it the new teaching way call "ai de jiao yu".... meaning NO beating NO scolding. comparing to my generation tell u the amount of times i kana beat up and scolded add up can be more than their toys ar.... (i acctually very gd boy 1 hehe.) hmmm i see the way the NEW version of teaching really is CMI but what can i do? My PEI FEN dont allow me to 'kick in' into the issue. U know they can scold/beat him but few mins later buy him ice cream....(just a example la.).Yes he is cute but so what... so end up he and his sis is *from my point of view* not showing respect to ANY 1. because they are the king and queen even my DAD cant do much... Y all of a sudden me do this? well i have been tolerating all this for this few years. every time i explode although is his/her fault i will always bare all the outcome'is this the result of guiding them or teaching them the rite thing?' I was trying to stop him from using the com today as he did not study the whole day(his dad declare a 'NO computer' for him as he only use it for gaming) but end up I was stop for doing this... thus he played the whole afternoon.... till 5+ when his dad got back and DO NOTHING!!!! wahaha tell u my blood boil till..... high high ar. i was trying to help him but he... so i figure out 1 thing, if the parents choose this way of teaching... Y must i be the bad guy? one day when i KICK in to the issue i will make sure all will kana from me.
Sorry Bros/sis make u all read such a blog. this will be the first and the last time k. hehe. gtg loh. my pi li huo starting soon... wahaha.

REsuperG_13B-REW's memories written10/05/2004